lord, nicky is going to think i'm picking on her to day but i'm not....it's just that much of what she has said today has hit a chord with me....
one of the advantages of the net, about meeting someone thru blogging, tru boards is that we get to "meet" the person first...in real life we "see" the person first, and our first impressions of the person are from their appearance....that puts me at a real disadvantage because i'm a troll, little childern see me and point "mommy mommy, what's that, does it bite, should we call animal control"....(hehe).....
seriously i try hard not to judge people from their appearance, that being said i am a male, and have been known to drive up a lamp post if a particularly well endowed young lady is strutting her stuff down the sidewalk, but i really make an effort to get to know the person before making any firm judgement on who, what .....they are......
i try not to create a mental image of what a person looks like that i meet on line
rather i try to construct a mental image of who they are inside............a beautiful face, a great body is only the whipped cream on the cake.....the real meal is the personality.......and besides at my age...i should watch my weight and skip dessert anyways