anon 4 and coffee, am in a foul mood this morning, way past my usual normal typical morning bad mood, family get to gether for christmas at my sister's, to an age now where it's not just brother,sister,neices and nephews, but also grand neices and nephews, getting to the point where long term exposure to young childern is an extreme irration, i just don't have the patience for it anymore, and when you add the hype of christmas, the behavior index of young childern probably drops below zero, yah i know, i was probably just as big an irration to my elders when the roles were reversed, but then i guess that's part of family........will put a good face on it and maybe it won't be too bad....